Disappointment

So exactly how does one deal with disappointment? Especially if that one person is a GIRL! Of course, girls are emotional people.. so we kinda get the bad end of the deal.

It is easy to associate disappointment with being let down. And in this case it is all the same emotion. When you get upset do you ever find yourself doing things that you would never do while you were in a good mood? For example, some people do things, unusual things, that they would never do when they are happy because they, of course, do not like doing it. But when they, a girl in particular, is upset then we tend to do things that inflict some sort of emotional pain onto us.

This evening, I was let down in a very unexpected way. Because I was let down.. it made me very disappointed in him. Now, you have to understand that I am a person of strict plans. When I do not have a plan, I become very flustered which then leads to grouchyness (if thats a word). Then that said grouchyness leads to me getting very disappointed very easily. Which is what happened. I will not give the details of the situation but I will say that the person that did let me down is of some importance to me. He's different than the others. Very different.

But like all disappointment in life, they come and they go. When disappointments happen it seems like the world moves a lot slower and you drag along just wanting someone to feel bad for you. Of course, it would help if that someone that upsets you would feel bad and somehow just turn around and try to make it all better. But this is not a fairy tale (in the words of taylor swift) and its definitely not a romantic movie. Best advice when things like this happen is get over it. It's not the end of the world.. may seem like it. But when you wake up in the morning things WILL be better. Sleep is the best cure for being upset. It is for me anyway.